Leadership

VFDA Staff

President | 2024-2025
Krystina Diman

Krystina is native of Baltimore, Maryland and after joining the U.S. Army she relocated to Fort Lee, Virginia where she served as a Mortuary Affairs Specialist. In 2007, she deployed to Mosul, Iraq, in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. While oversees, Krystina discovered her desire to comfort the families that had experienced the loss of a loved one. This calling in addition to having suffered the loss of her sister early in life, she decided to dedicate her career to guiding families through the challenging times associated with bereavement.

Following her military service Krystina matriculated her degree in mortuary science from John Tyler Community College and has spent the past 15 years serving families in central Virginia.   During this time Krystina has earned many coveted certifications to include the prestigious title of Certified Funeral Service Practitioner. Krystina is a member of the National, Virginia, and Central District Funeral Directors Associations and currently serves on the LifeNet and Leadership Advisory Committees.  She is also currently the committee chairperson for membership and outreach for the Virginia Funeral Directors Association.

Krystina and her husband, Joseph, have two young sons and in her off time enjoys camping and going to the beach. She enjoys crafting, gardening, baking and enjoying life’s adventures with her family.  Krystina is passionate about education and community involvement in addition to honoring veterans for their service to this country and educating families about childhood grief.

Vice President | 2024-2025
Larry Phillips

Larry Phillips’s commitment to serving Virginia families exemplifies the caring, professional approach that is a hallmark of the funeral service profession. Larry has dedicated his career to providing exceptional service to families during their time of need. As a Family Services Manager for multiple funeral homes and cemeteries in Central Virginia, Larry is committed to helping grieving families honor and celebrate the lives of their loved ones with dignity and compassion. With decades of experience in the funeral service industry, Larry strives for the highest standards of excellence in every funeral he coordinates. When not at work, Larry enjoys spending time with his wife Alex and their Weimaraner, Bella, at their home in Chesterfield, Virginia or at the Chesapeake Bay in Matthews, Virginia.

Director At-Large | 2024-2026
Bobby L. Gardner, Jr.

From Floyd, VA

I have been a licensed Funeral Director for over 32 years, but it seems like I have been in the funeral business all my life. I literally grew up in the Funeral Home. I was 11 years old when my parents, Bobby L Gardner Sr and Mary Gray Gardner started Gardner Funeral Home. We lived
upstairs, and at that age I thought it was “cool” to dress up and go downstairs and act like a grown-up, helping the families we served. From that time on, I knew that funeral service is what I wanted to do (other than flying jets in the military).

As I have grown in the funeral profession, I realized it is not about “dress-up”, it is about service, care, and compassion for our families. They invite us into their lives at one of the most vulnerable times and they trust us to care for and honor the person they hold so very dear. I feel like we are put here on this earth to do a job and I am thankful and blessed that this is mine.

I have been married to my wife, Joy Adams Gardner for 32 years and we have two sons (Adam and Baily), a daughter-in-law (Kennedy), and a granddaughter (Dawsyn). My youngest son Baily, is now a 3rd Generation Funeral Director.

At Gardner Funeral Home, our motto is “Our family serving your family” and in the coming years, I want to see the Virginia Funeral Directors Association grow and prosper through serving others.

Director At-Large | 2023-2025
Larry Joines

Larry was born and raised in Chilhowie, Virginia.  In 1976, he started working at Barnett’s Marion Funeral Home as a parttime job working after school.  After graduating from Chilhowie High School in 1978, he attended the Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science and graduated in September, 1979.  At that time, he went back to work at Barnett’s Marion Funeral Home, served his apprenticeship and became a funeral service licensee in 1980.  He remained there until 1985 when he moved to Abingdon, Virginia and started working for Farris Funeral Service as the manager.  Being a member of the Southwest Virginia Funeral Director’s Association, he served as the treasurer for several years and later served as President.  Later he became involved with the Virginia Funeral Director’s Association serving on the Board of Directors for many years along with serving on several committees.    In 2010, he moved to Bassett, Virginia where he began working at Bassett Funeral Service.  In 2011, he was promoted to manager of the funeral home and continues to work as the manager along with serving families.  Larry continued serving on the Virginia Funeral Director’s Association as a member of the Board of Directors and working his way through the chairs to become President of the Association 2016-2017.  After serving as President, he has continued to serve on the Board of Directors in various capacities.   

Treasurer | 2024-2026
John Saville
Chaplin | 2024-2025
Baily Gardner

I have worked in the funeral business for 10 years now and have been a licensed funeral director for 5 years. Although it feels like I have been in the funeral business my entire life. From a young age every day after school me and my older brother would be dropped off at the funeral home and it’s where we hung out until it was closing time. Everyone always says that funeral homes are dreary and gloomy, but when we hopped off the bus that was our hang out spot! Gardner Funeral Home has always felt like a second home to me because it’s where I grew up and where I made many memories. Coming in as a 3rd generation Funeral Director has been both a blessing and can feel like a curse at the same time. I had the outline of what it was like to be a funeral director from what my father and grandfather had already done in this community, but it also meant that I had some very large shoes to fill! As I continue to grow in my role not only as a funeral director but as a friend, another family member, or just an ear to listen for every family that walks through our funeral I realize more and more that being a funeral director is not the person that wears a fancy suit. Being a funeral director means being there, showing compassion, and helping people through some of the toughest times of their life.  My father has a phrase that he tells most families that I have modified myself a little bit that says, “In this time we will laugh together, we will cry together, but we will get through this together because we want to make this process as painless as possible through a very painful time.”

 I am blessed to be married to the love of my life Kennedy Gardner, and in 2023 we welcomed our beautiful daughter Rosalee into this world. Growing up and growing into my role is realizing that compassion is the element that will help pave the way for every other aspect of life. As a funeral director in a small community knowing everyone that walks through our doors makes using that element easier because I know these people. They either watched me grow up or I grew up with them. In Tv shows in small towns everybody knows everybody and in Floyd, VA I can confidently say that is our truth. Even though my title is Funeral Director here in Floyd I am not defined by a singular roll. I am known as the guy that will talk to you for hours on end about anything at the grocery store or the one that can help you move a refrigerator or will pull over to help push your car out of the middle of the road. I am honored to be a member of this community and look forward to being able to serve the VFDA community and be able to help in any way I can.

Southwest District | 2024-2027
Amanda Perry
Blue Ridge District | 2024-2027
Robert Givens
Northern District | 2023-2026
Gary Maxwell

Born in Brooklyn, NY and raised in Queens. Gary lived over a funeral home when he was 10 and then went to school to pursue his career. Gary has worked at funeral homes in NY and Portsmouth, VA , before settling in Northern, VA. He worked in Manassas for 6 years, Fairfax for 15 years, and has been with the Cunningham Turch and Mountcastle Turch for the last 7 years.

He enjoys watching NY Rangers Hockey, NHRA Drag Racing, and NASCAR.  A Past President and current member of Fairfax Host Lions Club, Member of Knights of Columbus, John Paul 1 Council.

He enjoys spending time with family and going on vacation.

VFSA President | 2024-2025
Kevin Brown
Lobbyist
Angie Bezik

Angie Bezik originally founded Principle Advantage Government Relations Group, LLC, a Hampton Roads-based public relations and government relations firm, in 2009. Angie develops and implements successful strategies for legislation, budget items and project coordination with an array of clients at the state and local level, including clients within the alternative/renewable energy, health, technology, and transportation sectors, and local government and quasi-governmental authorities. Additionally, she works with businesses and organizations to develop strategic plans to enhance their profiles, missions and branding by making introductions to appropriate businesses, government officials and staff, community leaders and organizations.

Angie started her political and public relations career as the Legislative Director for a member of the Virginia House of Delegates. After seven years, she was recruited by a prominent Richmond-based lobbying firm to run its Hampton Roads office.

Through her career, Angie has established solid relationships with local, state, and federal representatives, departments and agencies, and business leaders. She currently serves on the Virginia Beach Board of the Hampton Roads Chamber of Commerce; the Hampton Roads Association of Commercial Builders (HRACRE) Legislative Committee; and the Citizens Transportation Advisory Committee (CTAC) of the Hampton Roads Transportation Planning Organization (HRTPO); and the Roanoke River Basin Association (RRBA) Board of Directors. In 2013, she was chosen to serve on Governor Terence R. McAuliffe’s Technology Transition Team and currently serves as Chairman of the Public Awareness Committee of Champions for Children Hampton Roads, a 501(c) 3 whose mission is to eradicate child abuse and neglect in the Hampton Roads region.

President-Elect | 2024-2025
Gregg Faulkner, Sr.

Gregg Faulkner, Sr. is co-owner and president of Faulkner Funeral Homes & Cremation Services, with the Foster-Faulkner Chapel in Mathews, Bristow-Faulkner Chapel in Saluda, and Marks-Bristow Chapel in Tappahannock. Gregg is also co-owner and vice-president of Tri-County Vault Company, which serves funeral homes on the Peninsula, Middle Peninsula, and Northern Neck with high quality Eagle Vault products and services. In July of 2021, Gregg and his brother Billy also opened River Country Pet Loss & Cremation Center in an effort to provide pet families in their area the same dignity, care, and excellent service they strive to provide at their other businesses. Gregg is an ordained Minister and loves the opportunity to fill in when needed at several local churches. His hobbies are boating and fishing in the beautiful Piankatank River and Chesapeake Bay, and doing yardwork at his home. He and his wife Valerie, live in Cobbs Creek, Virginia.

Director At-Large | 2023-2025
Charlie Rimel
Director At-Large | 2024-2026
Dave Vanderpool

Dave has served families at John M. Oakey & Son since 2002, where he serves as the Manager.  He was born in Waynesboro, Virginia, and moved to Salem with his parents when he was just 2 weeks old.  He graduated from Salem High School in 1990, earned a Bachelor of Science Degree in Religion from Southern Wesleyan University in 1994, and received an ordination certificate from The Wesleyan Church in 1996.  Dave served as a full-time assistant pastor for eight years.  During his ministry, however, Dave pondered over his passion for funeral service that began even as a teenager.  It was in 2002 that Dave began directing his compassion toward funeral service and joined the John M. Oakey & Son staff as a resident trainee.  He studied mortuary science at John Tyler Community College, was awarded an Associate in Applied Science Degree with a major in Funeral Services in 2005, and received his funeral director’s license in February of 2006.  Dave thoroughly enjoys all aspects of funeral service and considers his involvement in it not as an occupation but as a calling.  He and his wife, Kim, together have 3 beautiful children, Jillian, Dawson, and Iliana.  He is a member of the Salem Kiwanis Club, the National Funeral Directors’ Association, former President of the Blue Ridge Funeral Directors’ Association, and current member-at-large on the Virginia Funeral Directors’ Association board.  Dave enjoys, camping, hiking, reading, writing, and traveling in his spare time.

Immediate Past President
Matt Perry

I have served the commonwealth of Virginia since 2007 as a Funeral Service Licensee.  I knew from a young age that funeral service was what I wanted to do.  I began my career in my hometown of Big Stone Gap, Va., in 2002, before obtaining my degree in Mortuary Science from Gupton- Jones College in Atlanta, Ga.  Upon graduation, I returned home and served my apprenticeship.

I met my wife, Amanda who is also a Funeral Service Licensee in 2012 and we have been married since 2015.  We live in historic Abingdon, Va. and have served our community collectively for nearly 25 years.  My wife and I are first generation, but we have devoted our lives to funeral service because we wholeheartedly believe in serving our community and profession to the best of our abilities.

My wife and I are members of Abingdon Baptist Church.  We are the owners of Perry Cremation & Funeral Alternatives in Abingdon, Va.  I also serve as a Funeral Service Licensee at Singleton Funeral Service in Cedar Bluff, Va. 

Having been a member of the board of directors since 2014.  I feel it a true honor to serve this association as president for the 2023-2024 term.

Sergeant-at-Arms | 2024-2025
Douglas Parr, Jr.
Central District | 2023-2026
Margaret Edie

Margaret Adair Edie was born in Lewisburg, Pennsylvania she and her family settled in Stafford, Virginia in 1991. After she graduated from high school, Margaret continued with her education by becoming a Certified Nursing Assistant and worked on the Palliative Care Unit at Mary Washington Hospital. Wanting to further her education, Margaret enrolled in the Mortuary Science Program at Jefferson State Community College in Birmingham, Alabama. She relocated back to Virginia and graduated in 2008 from John Tyler Community College. Margaret served her internship under the mentorship of Barry Murphy at Murphy Funeral Home in Arlington, Virginia. Once she completed her internship, she continued working with Murphy Funeral Home and grew as a director with high profile funeral services at Arlington National Cemetery and followed contract instructions from the US Army regarding services for active-duty soldiers and the repatriation of remains found from past wars. She was also involved with multicultural services and community outreach, becoming a licensed funeral director in the state of Maryland and the District of Columbia.

In 2011, Margaret met her husband, Brion Edie who was stationed at Fort Myer Army Base as a medical with the Presidential Guard. They were married in the spring of 2013, and in October 2014 they welcomed their only child, Mea Marie. Wanting to establish roots, Margaret and Brion decided to relocate their family to the Richmond area and moved to Chesterfield, Virginia in 2018. Margaret gained employment at Morrissett Funeral & Cremation Service and over time became the General Manager. In 2022, Margaret had the opportunity to purchase Morrissett Funeral & Cremation Service, where she plans to continue the vision and legacy of the previous owners.

Margaret enjoys spending time with her family and their new dog, Grace, who is training to be an additional comfort dog at Morrissett. The Edie family enjoys cookouts, spending time with friends and family, working in the flower garden, creating unique arts and crafts, and international travel. They are members of Meadowbrook Country Club where Mea Marie has joined the swim team and has plans to go to the Olympics when she grows up. Margaret is the current President of the CDFDA and a member of the VFDA and NFDA. She is the President of the Shepherd’s Center of Chesterfield, where she has an active role with planning for and assisting the 60+ community of Chesterfield.

Shenandoah District | 2024-27
Lindsey Whitmore

Lindsey was born in Augusta, GA and grew up in North Augusta, SC. She is a first generation funeral director, having become interested in the profession following the loss of three of her grandparents in one year. 

She attended the University of South Carolina before transferring to the Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science in 2007.  In 2008, she earned a Bachelor of Science in Mortuary Science. Following graduation, she moved to the Shenandoah Valley where she served her internship under the supervision of Scott Slaven at Reynolds Hamrick Funeral Homes in Waynesboro, VA. In November 2010, she obtained her Virginia license as a funeral director and embalmer. Upon completion of her internship, her professional development continued at Reynolds Hamrick Funeral Homes where she has continued for over a decade to provide dignified, respectful and compassionate care to every family she serves.

Lindsey’s professional awards include Intern of the Year for 2009-2010 by Keystone North America Inc., SCI’s Living the Brand Market award in 2013 and 2018 Rookie of the Year by the Shenandoah Valley Funeral Directors Association. She is a member of the Academy of Professional Funeral Service Practice having earned the credentials of Certified Funeral Service Practitioner in 2013. In 2023 Lindsey was honored to be chosen to be featured on Bruce Goddard’s podcast View From a Hearse, episode 77 “Women in Funeral Service”. Currently Lindsey serves as the secretary for the Shenandoah Valley Funeral Directors Association.

In her spare time Lindsey’s interests include traveling, hiking, antiquing, vegetable gardening, canning, watching college football, especially her Carolina Gamecocks, and being mother to her two Snowshoe cats, Mabel and Lucy.

Tidewater District | 2023-2026
Eric Wray

Eric Vaughn Wray II is a native of Portsmouth, a resident of Virginia Beach, Virginia, and has over 25 years experience in the Funeral industry and serves as our Licensed Funeral Director & Embalmer; holding dual licenses in Virginia & North Carolina.

Eric received his education from the Portsmouth Public School System and holds an Associate’s in Applied Science Degree in Funeral Service from John Tyler Community College in Chester, VA. Eric has also matriculated at Norfolk State University and is a graduate of the University of Virginia’s historic Thomas C. Sorensen Institute for Political Leadership program.

Eric was appointed in 2011 by Governor Bob McDonnell to serve as the youngest member in the Commonwealth’s history, on the Virginia State Board of Funeral Directors and Embalmers. During his tenure, Eric served as Secretary/Treasurer of the board.

Eric Wray also has served our country during the terror attacks on September 11, 2001 in the United States Navy. His service includes duty stations in Great Lakes, IL, Meridian MS, and Newport, RI. Eric is also active in many community and civic organizations.

In his community service, Eric has been able to bring pastors, community, faith, civic, and labor leaders together with National, State, and Local elected officials. He has joined with various political campaigns, who desired to improve the lives of working families, on issues and helped organize a majority in Virginia across race, class, and political lines.

Professional & Local Associations

Board Member/Secretary Virginia State Board of Funeral Directors

Board Member Virginia Beach Volunteer Rescue Squad Foundation

Past President -Tidewater Funeral Directors Association

President/CEO of the Virginia Burial Foundation Inc.

Board Member – City of Virginia Beach Community Development Corporation

Member of the National Funeral Directors Association

Board Member of the Virginia Funeral Directors Association 

Vice-Chairman City of Portsmouth Board of Housing

Member City of Portsmouth Social Services Board

Executive Secretary of Board of Directors-YMCA of Hampton Roads

Southside District | 2024-2026
Paul Whitten

For over 3 decades, Paul Whitten has been honored to serve families in the greater Lynchburg area through the funeral home that bears his name. Paul is a 3rd generation funeral director and from a very young age knew he wanted to follow his grandfather and firm founder, W.C. “Red” Whitten. He is a 1988 graduate of Gupton-Jones College of Funeral service, a certified cremation arranger, a member of the Virginia Funeral Directors Association and a past president of the Virginia Board of Funeral Directors and Embalmers. Paul and his wife, Marnie, are members of Thomas Road Baptist Church in Lynchburg. They enjoy traveling and RVing with their two sons.

Communications/Graphics
Josh Arbogast

Josh Arbogast has over 14 years of Graphic Design and marketing experience. He has a vast array of skills and has put those skills to work in many industries ranging from the fitness, power monitoring, medical, mortgage and banking industries. He says, “joining the VFDA is an amazing opportunity to help bring a refresh to the association, and help to drive the association to bigger and better things.” The new VFDA logo was a creation design of his, and we look forward to him helping us going forward. 

Josh is a life-long native of the Shenandoah Valley, grew up in Bridgewater, VA, and lives in Harrisonburg, VA. When not working, Josh likes to spend time with Trex, his Bernese mountain dog. He enjoys cycling and being outdoors exploring new places and sights. He also likes to build and restore furniture. “Designing, building, and being creative is something that drives me, and are just a few things that I am passionate about.”

“I look forward to helping the association in any way possible and am always here and open to having a conversation with anyone at any time.”

President | 2024-2025
Krystina Diman

Krystina is native of Baltimore, Maryland and after joining the U.S. Army she relocated to Fort Lee, Virginia where she served as a Mortuary Affairs Specialist. In 2007, she deployed to Mosul, Iraq, in support of Operation Iraqi Freedom. While oversees, Krystina discovered her desire to comfort the families that had experienced the loss of a loved one. This calling in addition to having suffered the loss of her sister early in life, she decided to dedicate her career to guiding families through the challenging times associated with bereavement.

Following her military service Krystina matriculated her degree in mortuary science from John Tyler Community College and has spent the past 15 years serving families in central Virginia.   During this time Krystina has earned many coveted certifications to include the prestigious title of Certified Funeral Service Practitioner. Krystina is a member of the National, Virginia, and Central District Funeral Directors Associations and currently serves on the LifeNet and Leadership Advisory Committees.  She is also currently the committee chairperson for membership and outreach for the Virginia Funeral Directors Association.

Krystina and her husband, Joseph, have two young sons and in her off time enjoys camping and going to the beach. She enjoys crafting, gardening, baking and enjoying life’s adventures with her family.  Krystina is passionate about education and community involvement in addition to honoring veterans for their service to this country and educating families about childhood grief.

President-Elect | 2024-2025
Gregg Faulkner, Sr.

Gregg Faulkner, Sr. is co-owner and president of Faulkner Funeral Homes & Cremation Services, with the Foster-Faulkner Chapel in Mathews, Bristow-Faulkner Chapel in Saluda, and Marks-Bristow Chapel in Tappahannock. Gregg is also co-owner and vice-president of Tri-County Vault Company, which serves funeral homes on the Peninsula, Middle Peninsula, and Northern Neck with high quality Eagle Vault products and services. In July of 2021, Gregg and his brother Billy also opened River Country Pet Loss & Cremation Center in an effort to provide pet families in their area the same dignity, care, and excellent service they strive to provide at their other businesses. Gregg is an ordained Minister and loves the opportunity to fill in when needed at several local churches. His hobbies are boating and fishing in the beautiful Piankatank River and Chesapeake Bay, and doing yardwork at his home. He and his wife Valerie, live in Cobbs Creek, Virginia.

Vice President | 2024-2025
Larry Phillips
Immediate Past President
Matt Perry

I have served the commonwealth of Virginia since 2007 as a Funeral Service Licensee.  I knew from a young age that funeral service was what I wanted to do.  I began my career in my hometown of Big Stone Gap, Va., in 2002, before obtaining my degree in Mortuary Science from Gupton- Jones College in Atlanta, Ga.  Upon graduation, I returned home and served my apprenticeship.

I met my wife, Amanda who is also a Funeral Service Licensee in 2012 and we have been married since 2015.  We live in historic Abingdon, Va. and have served our community collectively for nearly 25 years.  My wife and I are first generation, but we have devoted our lives to funeral service because we wholeheartedly believe in serving our community and profession to the best of our abilities.

My wife and I are members of Abingdon Baptist Church.  We are the owners of Perry Cremation & Funeral Alternatives in Abingdon, Va.  I also serve as a Funeral Service Licensee at Singleton Funeral Service in Cedar Bluff, Va. 

Having been a member of the board of directors since 2014.  I feel it a true honor to serve this association as president for the 2023-2024 term.

Director At-Large | 2024-2026
Bobby L. Gardner, Jr.

From Floyd, VA

I have been a licensed Funeral Director for over 32 years, but it seems like I have been in the funeral business all my life. I literally grew up in the Funeral Home. I was 11 years old when my parents, Bobby L Gardner Sr and Mary Gray Gardner started Gardner Funeral Home. We lived
upstairs, and at that age I thought it was “cool” to dress up and go downstairs and act like a grown-up, helping the families we served. From that time on, I knew that funeral service is what I wanted to do (other than flying jets in the military).

As I have grown in the funeral profession, I realized it is not about “dress-up”, it is about service, care, and compassion for our families. They invite us into their lives at one of the most vulnerable times and they trust us to care for and honor the person they hold so very dear. I feel like we are put here on this earth to do a job and I am thankful and blessed that this is mine.

I have been married to my wife, Joy Adams Gardner for 32 years and we have two sons (Adam and Baily), a daughter-in-law (Kennedy), and a granddaughter (Dawsyn). My youngest son Baily, is now a 3rd Generation Funeral Director.

At Gardner Funeral Home, our motto is “Our family serving your family” and in the coming years, I want to see the Virginia Funeral Directors Association grow and prosper through serving others.

Director At-Large | 2023-2025
Charlie Rimel
Director At-Large | 2024-2026
Dave Vanderpool

Dave has served families at John M. Oakey & Son since 2002, where he serves as the Manager.  He was born in Waynesboro, Virginia, and moved to Salem with his parents when he was just 2 weeks old.  He graduated from Salem High School in 1990, earned a Bachelor of Science Degree in Religion from Southern Wesleyan University in 1994, and received an ordination certificate from The Wesleyan Church in 1996.  Dave served as a full-time assistant pastor for eight years.  During his ministry, however, Dave pondered over his passion for funeral service that began even as a teenager.  It was in 2002 that Dave began directing his compassion toward funeral service and joined the John M. Oakey & Son staff as a resident trainee.  He studied mortuary science at John Tyler Community College, was awarded an Associate in Applied Science Degree with a major in Funeral Services in 2005, and received his funeral director’s license in February of 2006.  Dave thoroughly enjoys all aspects of funeral service and considers his involvement in it not as an occupation but as a calling.  He and his wife, Kim, together have 3 beautiful children, Jillian, Dawson, and Iliana.  He is a member of the Salem Kiwanis Club, the National Funeral Directors’ Association, former President of the Blue Ridge Funeral Directors’ Association, and current member-at-large on the Virginia Funeral Directors’ Association board.  Dave enjoys, camping, hiking, reading, writing, and traveling in his spare time.

Director At-Large | 2023-2025
Larry Joines

Larry was born and raised in Chilhowie, Virginia.  In 1976, he started working at Barnett’s Marion Funeral Home as a parttime job working after school.  After graduating from Chilhowie High School in 1978, he attended the Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science and graduated in September, 1979.  At that time, he went back to work at Barnett’s Marion Funeral Home, served his apprenticeship and became a funeral service licensee in 1980.  He remained there until 1985 when he moved to Abingdon, Virginia and started working for Farris Funeral Service as the manager.  Being a member of the Southwest Virginia Funeral Director’s Association, he served as the treasurer for several years and later served as President.  Later he became involved with the Virginia Funeral Director’s Association serving on the Board of Directors for many years along with serving on several committees.    In 2010, he moved to Bassett, Virginia where he began working at Bassett Funeral Service.  In 2011, he was promoted to manager of the funeral home and continues to work as the manager along with serving families.  Larry continued serving on the Virginia Funeral Director’s Association as a member of the Board of Directors and working his way through the chairs to become President of the Association 2016-2017.  After serving as President, he has continued to serve on the Board of Directors in various capacities.   

Chaplin | 2024-2025
Baily Gardner

I have worked in the funeral business for 10 years now and have been a licensed funeral director for 5 years. Although it feels like I have been in the funeral business my entire life. From a young age every day after school me and my older brother would be dropped off at the funeral home and it’s where we hung out until it was closing time. Everyone always says that funeral homes are dreary and gloomy, but when we hopped off the bus that was our hang out spot! Gardner Funeral Home has always felt like a second home to me because it’s where I grew up and where I made many memories. Coming in as a 3rd generation Funeral Director has been both a blessing and can feel like a curse at the same time. I had the outline of what it was like to be a funeral director from what my father and grandfather had already done in this community, but it also meant that I had some very large shoes to fill! As I continue to grow in my role not only as a funeral director but as a friend, another family member, or just an ear to listen for every family that walks through our funeral I realize more and more that being a funeral director is not the person that wears a fancy suit. Being a funeral director means being there, showing compassion, and helping people through some of the toughest times of their life.  My father has a phrase that he tells most families that I have modified myself a little bit that says, “In this time we will laugh together, we will cry together, but we will get through this together because we want to make this process as painless as possible through a very painful time.”

I am blessed to be married to the love of my life Kennedy Gardner, and in 2023 we welcomed our beautiful daughter Rosalee into this world. Growing up and growing into my role is realizing that compassion is the element that will help pave the way for every other aspect of life. As a funeral director in a small community knowing everyone that walks through our doors makes using that element easier because I know these people. They either watched me grow up or I grew up with them. In Tv shows in small towns everybody knows everybody and in Floyd, VA I can confidently say that is our truth. Even though my title is Funeral Director here in Floyd I am not defined by a singular roll. I am known as the guy that will talk to you for hours on end about anything at the grocery store or the one that can help you move a refrigerator or will pull over to help push your car out of the middle of the road. I am honored to be a member of this community and look forward to being able to serve the VFDA community and be able to help in any way I can.

Treasurer | 2024-2026
John Saville
Southwest District | 2024-2027
Amanda Perry
Sergeant-at-Arms | 2024-2025
Douglas Parr, Jr.
Blue Ridge District | 2024-2027
Robert Givens
Central District | 2023-2026
Margaret Edie

Margaret Adair Edie was born in Lewisburg, Pennsylvania she and her family settled in Stafford, Virginia in 1991. After she graduated from high school, Margaret continued with her education by becoming a Certified Nursing Assistant and worked on the Palliative Care Unit at Mary Washington Hospital. Wanting to further her education, Margaret enrolled in the Mortuary Science Program at Jefferson State Community College in Birmingham, Alabama. She relocated back to Virginia and graduated in 2008 from John Tyler Community College. Margaret served her internship under the mentorship of Barry Murphy at Murphy Funeral Home in Arlington, Virginia. Once she completed her internship, she continued working with Murphy Funeral Home and grew as a director with high profile funeral services at Arlington National Cemetery and followed contract instructions from the US Army regarding services for active-duty soldiers and the repatriation of remains found from past wars. She was also involved with multicultural services and community outreach, becoming a licensed funeral director in the state of Maryland and the District of Columbia.

In 2011, Margaret met her husband, Brion Edie who was stationed at Fort Myer Army Base as a medical with the Presidential Guard. They were married in the spring of 2013, and in October 2014 they welcomed their only child, Mea Marie. Wanting to establish roots, Margaret and Brion decided to relocate their family to the Richmond area and moved to Chesterfield, Virginia in 2018. Margaret gained employment at Morrissett Funeral & Cremation Service and over time became the General Manager. In 2022, Margaret had the opportunity to purchase Morrissett Funeral & Cremation Service, where she plans to continue the vision and legacy of the previous owners.

Margaret enjoys spending time with her family and their new dog, Grace, who is training to be an additional comfort dog at Morrissett. The Edie family enjoys cookouts, spending time with friends and family, working in the flower garden, creating unique arts and crafts, and international travel. They are members of Meadowbrook Country Club where Mea Marie has joined the swim team and has plans to go to the Olympics when she grows up. Margaret is the current President of the CDFDA and a member of the VFDA and NFDA. She is the President of the Shepherd’s Center of Chesterfield, where she has an active role with planning for and assisting the 60+ community of Chesterfield.

Northern District | 2023-2026
Gary Maxwell

Born in Brooklyn, NY and raised in Queens. Gary lived over a funeral home when he was 10 and then went to school to pursue his career. Gary has worked at funeral homes in NY and Portsmouth, VA , before settling in Northern, VA. He worked in Manassas for 6 years, Fairfax for 15 years, and has been with the Cunningham Turch and Mountcastle Turch for the last 7 years.

He enjoys watching NY Rangers Hockey, NHRA Drag Racing, and NASCAR.  A Past President and current member of Fairfax Host Lions Club, Member of Knights of Columbus, John Paul 1 Council.

He enjoys spending time with family and going on vacation.

Shenandoah District | 2024-27
Lindsey Whitmore

Lindsey was born in Augusta, GA and grew up in North Augusta, SC. She is a first generation funeral director, having become interested in the profession following the loss of three of her grandparents in one year. 

She attended the University of South Carolina before transferring to the Cincinnati College of Mortuary Science in 2007.  In 2008, she earned a Bachelor of Science in Mortuary Science. Following graduation, she moved to the Shenandoah Valley where she served her internship under the supervision of Scott Slaven at Reynolds Hamrick Funeral Homes in Waynesboro, VA. In November 2010, she obtained her Virginia license as a funeral director and embalmer. Upon completion of her internship, her professional development continued at Reynolds Hamrick Funeral Homes where she has continued for over a decade to provide dignified, respectful and compassionate care to every family she serves.  

Lindsey’s professional awards include Intern of the Year for 2009-2010 by Keystone North America Inc., SCI’s Living the Brand Market award in 2013 and 2018 Rookie of the Year by the Shenandoah Valley Funeral Directors Association. She is a member of the Academy of Professional Funeral Service Practice having earned the credentials of Certified Funeral Service Practitioner in 2013. In 2023 Lindsey was honored to be chosen to be featured on Bruce Goddard’s podcast View From a Hearse, episode 77 “Women in Funeral Service”. Currently Lindsey serves as the secretary for the Shenandoah Valley Funeral Directors Association.

In her spare time Lindsey’s interests include traveling, hiking, antiquing, vegetable gardening, canning, watching college football, especially her Carolina Gamecocks, and being mother to her two Snowshoe cats, Mabel and Lucy.

Southside District | 2024-2027
Paul Whitten

For over 3 decades, Paul Whitten has been honored to serve families in the greater Lynchburg area through the funeral home that bears his name. Paul is a 3rd generation funeral director and from a very young age knew he wanted to follow his grandfather and firm founder, W.C. “Red” Whitten. He is a 1988 graduate of Gupton-Jones College of Funeral service, a certified cremation arranger, a member of the Virginia Funeral Directors Association and a past president of the Virginia Board of Funeral Directors and Embalmers. Paul and his wife, Marnie, are members of Thomas Road Baptist Church in Lynchburg. They enjoy traveling and RVing with their two sons.

Tidewater District | 2023-2026
Eric Wray

Eric Vaughn Wray II is a native of Portsmouth, a resident of Virginia Beach, Virginia, and has over 25 years experience in the Funeral industry and serves as our Licensed Funeral Director & Embalmer; holding dual licenses in Virginia & North Carolina.

Eric received his education from the Portsmouth Public School System and holds an Associate’s in Applied Science Degree in Funeral Service from John Tyler Community College in Chester, VA. Eric has also matriculated at Norfolk State University and is a graduate of the University of Virginia’s historic Thomas C. Sorensen Institute for Political Leadership program.

Eric was appointed in 2011 by Governor Bob McDonnell to serve as the youngest member in the Commonwealth’s history, on the Virginia State Board of Funeral Directors and Embalmers. During his tenure, Eric served as Secretary/Treasurer of the board.

Eric Wray also has served our country during the terror attacks on September 11, 2001 in the United States Navy. His service includes duty stations in Great Lakes, IL, Meridian MS, and Newport, RI. Eric is also active in many community and civic organizations.

In his community service, Eric has been able to bring pastors, community, faith, civic, and labor leaders together with National, State, and Local elected officials. He has joined with various political campaigns, who desired to improve the lives of working families, on issues and helped organize a majority in Virginia across race, class, and political lines.

Professional & Local Associations

Board Member/Secretary Virginia State Board of Funeral Directors

Board Member Virginia Beach Volunteer Rescue Squad Foundation

Past President -Tidewater Funeral Directors Association

President/CEO of the Virginia Burial Foundation Inc.

Board Member – City of Virginia Beach Community Development Corporation

Member of the National Funeral Directors Association

Board Member of the Virginia Funeral Directors Association 

Vice-Chairman City of Portsmouth Board of Housing

Member City of Portsmouth Social Services Board

Executive Secretary of Board of Directors-YMCA of Hampton Roads

VFSA President | 2024-2025
Kevin Brown
Lobbyist
Angie Bezik

Angie Bezik originally founded Principle Advantage Government Relations Group, LLC, a Hampton Roads-based public relations and government relations firm, in 2009. Angie develops and implements successful strategies for legislation, budget items and project coordination with an array of clients at the state and local level, including clients within the alternative/renewable energy, health, technology, and transportation sectors, and local government and quasi-governmental authorities. Additionally, she works with businesses and organizations to develop strategic plans to enhance their profiles, missions and branding by making introductions to appropriate businesses, government officials and staff, community leaders and organizations.

Angie started her political and public relations career as the Legislative Director for a member of the Virginia House of Delegates. After seven years, she was recruited by a prominent Richmond-based lobbying firm to run its Hampton Roads office.

Through her career, Angie has established solid relationships with local, state, and federal representatives, departments and agencies, and business leaders. She currently serves on the Virginia Beach Board of the Hampton Roads Chamber of Commerce; the Hampton Roads Association of Commercial Builders (HRACRE) Legislative Committee; and the Citizens Transportation Advisory Committee (CTAC) of the Hampton Roads Transportation Planning Organization (HRTPO); and the Roanoke River Basin Association (RRBA) Board of Directors. In 2013, she was chosen to serve on Governor Terence R. McAuliffe’s Technology Transition Team and currently serves as Chairman of the Public Awareness Committee of Champions for Children Hampton Roads, a 501(c) 3 whose mission is to eradicate child abuse and neglect in the Hampton Roads region.

Communications/Graphics
Josh Arbogast

Josh Arbogast has over 14 years of Graphic Design and marketing experience. He has a vast array of skills and has put those skills to work in many industries ranging from the fitness, power monitoring, medical, mortgage and banking industries. He says, “joining the VFDA is an amazing opportunity to help bring a refresh to the association, and help to drive the association to bigger and better things.” The new VFDA logo was a creation design of his, and we look forward to him helping us going forward. 

Josh is a life-long native of the Shenandoah Valley, grew up in Bridgewater, VA, and lives in Harrisonburg, VA. When not working, Josh likes to spend time with Trex, his Bernese mountain dog. He enjoys cycling and being outdoors exploring new places and sights. He also likes to build and restore furniture. “Designing, building, and being creative is something that drives me, and are just a few things that I am passionate about.”

“I look forward to helping the association in any way possible and am always here and open to having a conversation with anyone at any time.”

2024-25 Committee Chairs

Larry Joines

Bylaws & Ethics Committee

Daniel Woodfin and Angie Todd

Legislative Committee

Daniel Chapman

Events Committee

Larry Phillips

Member Services & Retention Committee

Ray Sloan

FINANCE COMMITTEE