August 28, 2026

Lewis “Tommy” Thomas Abshire, a beloved father, grandfather, great grandfather, and friend, passed away on August 28, 2026, at Carilion Roanoke Memorial Hospital. Born on September 16, 1933, in the town of Boones Mill later living out his life in Wirtz, Va. Tommy lived a life marked by dedication, humor, and deep connections with those around him.

Tommy was the son of the late Harry T. and Myrtle Nunley Abshire. He was predeceased by his loving wife, Betty Minnix Abshire, with whom he shared many treasured years. In the years following Betty's passing, Tommy found companionship and joy in the company of Carolyn Walker and her entire family. She was a devoted partner of nearly 40 years.

A proud veteran of the United States Army, Tommy served his nation with honor and integrity. After his military service, he embarked on a fruitful career at Eli Lilly, dedicating 35 years to the company before enjoying a well-earned retirement. Retirement, however, was merely a new chapter for Tommy, who started a small landscaping business that kept him engaged and active for the rest of his days.

Tommy’s quick wit and humor were legendary. Those who knew him delighted in his unpredictable sayings and stories. He possessed an uncanny ability to make fast friends, sharing genuine interest and warmth with everyone he encountered. In the Abshire family, if there was ever a need, Tommy was the man with a solution—he always "had a guy for that."

He is survived by a loving family who will carry on his legacy: his brother GK Junior Abshire and sister-in-law Shirley, sister Esther Bunch, children Cynthia Ulrey and husband Denny, and Todd Abshire and wife Teke. His grandchildren, Brice Ulrey and wife Meg, and Brooke Peters and husband Rick, along with six adored great-grandchildren Andrew, Charlie, Frank, Laine, Emery, and Reese who knew him affectionately as Pawpaw. Tommy's family was the center of his world, and he cherished every moment spent with them.

A graveside service for Tommy will be held at 2:00 on September 2, 2026, at Franklin Memorial Park, 21440 Virgil H. Goode Hwy, Rocky Mount, VA 24151. Family and friends will gather to honor a remarkable life of a man who touched many hearts.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly suggests that donations be made in Tommy's memory to a charity of your choice, continuing his legacy of kindness and generosity.

Tommy Abshire will be deeply missed but fondly remembered by all who had the privilege to know him. His spirit lives on in the laughter, love, and warmth he brought to every life he touched

Arrangements by Conner-Bowman Funeral Home & Crematory, 62 VA Market Place Drive, Rocky Mount, VA 24151. (540) 334-5151

Lewis Thomas "Tommy" Abshire Obituary Aug 28, 2026 - Conner-Bowman Funeral Home

Todd Abshire is the son of Tommy Abshire and a very active member with both VFSA and SVFDA.